April 22, 2014

A new client from last week is a “be back”, a man in his mid 60’s that I interviewed on April 10th.

He said “I decided it would be nice to have someone help me with this important part of my life. I talked to some friends who know you and they encouraged me to get involved.”

Because I already had all of his information, I had a match arranged when he came back.

He said “I like this already. I feel like a kid in a candy store.” He is profile from April 10, 2014.

Another new client from last week is a man, mid 40’s, ABS (always been single), and educated. His long term goal is marriage and he prefers to have the option to have at least one child.

He said “I know it might be difficult for you to find a lady who is interested in having a family with someone my age.”
I said “It only takes one right one and I have a number of ladies between 35 and 40 who are interested in having children.”
He said “If that limits you too much I would also be interested in meeting ladies who may not want children. I don’t want to miss out on meeting someone who might otherwise be a good match.”

He is tall and fit and he was a referral from a client who has been trying to get him to call me for almost two years.
He said “I had lunch with her last week and after hearing another of my horror stories from online dating she handed me your card and insisted I call you.”
He has been meeting mostly women who are looking to be rescued financially or “cougars”.
I said “With your finance score ( a “3” on a scale of “0” to “10”) I will be matching you with ladies who are financially responsible and will have as much to offer you as you have to offer them.”

He is quite shy and I know it was not easy for him to call and come in to meet with me.
I called the lady who referred him to me and said “Guess who is a new client?”
She said “It’s about time! I literally stuck your card in his hand and said call her NOW.”

Another new client from last week is a man, late 40’s, divorced, educated and his long term goal is marriage.

He came in with his wish list and it was very detailed.

He said “Donna, I have been divorced for eight years and I have done a lot of dating. I am not here to date. I am ready to find that one special person and be married again. If anyone ever told me I would still be single after all these years I would not have believed them. I keep seeing and hearing your ads and since a matchmaker is about the only thing I have not tried I decided to call you.”

He is a single dad and in three years he will be an empty nester. He loves spending times with his kids but he is looking forward to the time they are both in college.

He said “I will be in my early 50’s and I want to spend the next half of my life having a lot of fun, sharing adventures and being madly in love with someone who is madly in love with me.”

He is an athlete and enjoys skiing, biking, hiking, tennis and doing the Incline. He also enjoys concerts, spectator sports, reading, spending time with family and his friends.

He said “If you find me the right lady I will send you a ton of referral business.
I said “Good, because despite all the advertising I do, it is referral business that keeps me in business.”

My fourth new client from last week is a lady, early 50’s, educated, self employed and her long term goal is a committed relationship, possibly marriage.

A soon as I finished telling her what her scores from the profile test told me about her she said “I read your Diaries on your website and these are the men I want to meet.”
She had copied the profiles of four men I have written about in the last couple of months. Without knowing anything else about her I pulled out their files and shared their information. All but one of them appeared to be a good match based on the scores.

She said “OK, sign me up.”
I said “I need the rest of your information in order to know if you are a good match for them.”
She said “Like what?”
I said “Like where you were born and raised, how many brothers and sisters you have, if you have children, how old they are, where they are, how you feel about pets, if you own your home, where you work, how long you have worked there, your income, your level of education, if you go to church, your interest and activities, your age and height preference for a man, your race preference to mention a few.”
She said “Ok, ok let’s fill in those blanks.”
In thirty minutes she was in and out the door, signed up, picture taken and her first match already decided.

Guess what her temperament score is? On a scale of “0” to “10” she is a “4”…direct, straight forward, no bull, she tells it like it is and she will not be taken advantage of by others.

That has to be the fastest interview I have ever done.
The first man I am going to match her with just told me last week to focus on matching him with a lady who was “spunky” and would enjoy some lively bantering.

Be careful what you ask for.

I am love, love, loving this weather. Spring time always makes people think about how nice it would be to have someone to not only share their life with but also all the wonderful outdoor activities we enjoy here in Colorado.

How about you? Are you missing your special someone?
Call 260-1000 for your no obligation interview and let’s see how many matches I have for you!

To be continued………………….