Dear Donna,
I have been dating a man since November and everything was going great until the coronavirus started.
Initially I understood when he said we should not see each other until things get better but that was almost three months ago and he still does not want to see me.
He texts and calls me regularly and assures me that he cares for me but says he cannot risk exposing himself to other people until he feels safe.
How long do you think I should wait? Penny
Dear Penny,
Does he have a compromised immune system or anything that makes him more susceptible than the average person?
Does he live with anyone he is concerned about exposing?
My clients have been meeting for the last four weeks and new clients are getting involved everyday but you have to respect whatever feels comfortable to him.
There are ways to be together and still social distance.
Many of my clients have been meeting at parks and that seems to be working out just fine. Why not make that suggestion and see how he responds?
At some point it makes no sense to continue to wait without some expectation from him as to when he thinks he will feel safe enough to see you again. Donna
Dear Donna,
You matched me with Debbie a year ago and I want you to know we have decided to get married.
She is truly an angel on earth.
We have been through so much in one short year, including the death of both her parents and me surviving coronavirus. I was in the hospital for seven days. She was supportive every single step of the way and her love is what helped me survive.
After my marriage ended and I finally decided to come to you I was unsure if finding the right person was in the cards for me and this is more than I ever dreamed was possible.
Thank you for matching me with this wonderful woman.
I will be forever grateful. Ron
Dear Ron,
I had a call from Debbie the other day. She called you "a treasure" and could not say enough about how supportive you have been for her.
I am so happy for both of you and truly do believe you are perfectly matched.
Wishing you both all the best! Donna
Also, the profile tests are once again coming in twice every time someone takes the test.
It's no big deal. I usually just delete one of them but if there is a way to fix that I would appreciate it.
Thanks,