My first appointment today is a lady, early 40’s, divorced, educated, self employed, and her long term is a serious relationship, possibly marriage. Grrrrrrr, it has been a few months since I have interviewed a cougar, but she definitely fits the description. Her age preference for a man is 30 to 35 and her last serious relationship was with a man who was 12 years younger than her. The relationship lasted several years but they had an incompatible long term goal because he wants to have children and she does not.