March 27, 2013

My first appointment today is a lady, mid 30’s, highly educated, ABS (always been single), and her long term goal is marriage. She has a young child and she is not interested in having anymore children, but she is very comfortable meeting a man who has children.

She said “I seem to attract younger men but that is often the conflict, they want to have children. Do you think that will be an issue as far as matching me is concerned?”
I said “No, I won’t match you with anyone who wants to have children, that would be an incompatible long term goal.”

She is passionate about music, practices yoga, enjoys theater, concerts, hiking, camping, loves to cook, and likes going to movies.
She said “I very often go to movies alone, in fact, I can be a bit of a homebody. I recharge by spending time alone.”
She also likes what she referred to as “structured spontaneity.”

She wants a few days to think about it before she decides whether or not to join.
She said “I never make a decision like this on the spot.”
I said “I never hard sell, just let me know what you decide, either way.”
I think she will be back.

My second appointment is a lady, mid 50’s, highly educated, divorced, her long term goal is eventually a committed, monogamous, relationship and probably marriage. She has not dated since her long term marriage ended and she agreed with me that she should just date, have fun, and explore her options for awhile.

It was a delightful interview and she has a very positive, uplifting energy about her. She is a “9” in temperament on a scale of “0” to “10” , very easy going, compassionate, and kind hearted. The type of person who always puts other people’s feelings before her own.

I said “The good thing about your temperament score is that you really care about other people, but sometimes to the point where you put their feelings before your own, even people who don’t deserve it, and that is when you can get hurt and taken advantage of.”
She said “How do you know that about me? You just met me ten minutes ago.”
I said “It’s your score that tells me.”
She said “But I’m not a pushover.”
I said “Yes you are.”
She said “Oh, OK.”
I said “See?!” We both got a good laugh out of that.

She plays the piano, enjoys theater and the arts, music and dancing. She also plays golf, hikes, swims, works out and loves to travel.
She said “I am retired, and would really like to find someone who wants to travel.”

I look forward to helping her start this next chapter of her life and I am sure the men will enjoy meeting her.
She makes you smile.

I am so glad Spring is finally here! The weather is getting warmer and it’s a time for new beginnings, a great time to fall in love. If you are missing that someone special in your life, this is a great time to call Perfectly Matched. Love Happens Here!

To be continued………………………………