May 30, 2013

My first appointment today is a man, late 50’s, educated, widowed, and semi retired. His long term goal is to find the next love of his life, and that may or may not include marriage.

He said “It has been almost a year since I lost my wife and I feel like I am ready to date but I don’t have a clue how to go about it. My daughter checked out your website and encouraged me to call you.”
I asked him if he had a good marriage.
He said “From the day I decided to get married my total focus was to make her happy. I knew if she was happy that would make me happy. Yes, I had a very good marriage.”
I said “You are very fortunate, and because you know what a good marriage is, you won’t settle for less as you move on.”

He said “I am ready to start enjoying life again. I have a great family and friends and they want to see me find someone special as much as I do. A couple of my friends have introduced me to ladies they thought I might be interested in but I don’t want to meet ladies through my friends because it is too awkward when I have to tell them I am not interested.”

He has an RV and would love to meet someone who would like to take some road trips with him.
He said “It is not exactly a little RV. It’s like a home away from home and it is very comfortable. I bought it a few months ago and I have spent a lot of time customizing it and now it’s ready to roll.”
He also enjoys photography, hiking, cooking, dining out, theater, concerts, movies, and going to events at the Fine Art and Pikes Peak Centers.

He said “I am excited about this next phase of my life. I still have many years ahead of me and I believe life is to be shared with someone I love by my side.

When I asked him about his preferences as far as age, height, race, he said “I am going to leave that all up to you.”
I said “Good, because as I match you and you provide me with your feedback, this will naturally become fine-tuned, and you will have more input.”

I look forward to helping him find the next love of his life.

People often ask me about my statistics, as far as age, sex, and where I have the most activity. Those statistics have stayed fairly consistent for twenty five years. Under 35 years of age there are usually more men, over 55, there are more women. Therefore, ladies under 35 and men over 55 usually have more options. Today I have the most activity in the 40’s where there is an equal number of men and women. Men in their 50’s and 60’s very often prefer to date younger women, which thins out the options for ladies in their 50’s and 60’s. I want to inspire more activity for those ladies by offering a complimentary introduction to men interested in meeting ladies in their 50’s and 60’s. For the month of June, I will make a match that I think is most compatible for you for no charge. It will give you an opportunity to see how my service works and you could meet someone very special. You must be emotionally available and in the right frame of mind to meet someone new. If this applies to you, please give me a call at 260-1000 to schedule your one hour interview. And ladies, tell your brother, father, uncle, cousin, friend, co-worker, and anyone else you know who is a great guy looking to meet a great lady. It only takes ONE right one!

To be continued………