May 4, 2013

My first appointment today is a man, mid 30’s, ABS, (always been single), educated, his long term goal is marriage and children. Although he has always been single, he had a relationship for two years. They disconnected, then reconnected and the relationship lasted five more years. It has been over for a few years, and he has dated quite a few ladies, but no one who had marriage potential.

He said “Nothing else I have done so far has led me to the type of woman I want to marry. I thought I should give you a call and see what you have to offer.”

He works out five times a week, hikes, bikes, and does the Incline. He enjoys basketball, football, baseball, likes musicals, concerts, and music is a very important part of his life. He also enjoys the local events like Spring Spree, the Art Walks, and loves road trips. He would like to travel internationally with someone special.

He is a strong believer and would want to meet someone who shares his faith and would enjoy going to church.

He needs couple of weeks to get adjusted to a new job, and plans to give me a call and get started with Perfectly Matched.

He said “I am tired of spinning my wheels and I am very impressed with the ladies you spoke to me about today. I WILL be back.”

My second appointment is a man, mid 40’s, educated, widowed, his long term goal is a serious, monogamous relationship, he can go either way as far as getting married.

He said “I don’t personally feel the need to be married but If I was in love with someone who needed that in order to feel our relationship was complete, I would be fine with getting married.”

He is about to be an empty nester when his second child goes off to college this fall.
He said “I have been through a lot in the last few years and now it feels like everything is falling in place. My kids are doing great and I am ready to meet someone special, but I am not ready to jump into anything too quickly. I want to take my time and get to know someone.
I said “You waited a few years and have had only one relationship since you have been widowed. You should date, have fun, make friends, and explore your options.”
He said “That’s exactly what I want to do.”

He has a great job, is very bright, charming, quick to smile (and he has a beautiful smile), light hearted and down to earth.
He enjoys golf…a lot! He plays volleyball, goes to Vegas one a year, mountain bikes, hikes, and likes live music and concerts.

He is very open on his preferences and will meet ladies from 38 to 51. His height preference is 5’ to 6’2.
I said “So you don’t mind if a lady is a little taller than you.”
He said “Heck no, if they don’t mind I am a little shorter than them.”

Although he is about to be an empty nester, he does not mind a lady who still has kids at home.
He said “I love kids, but I would hope to meet someone who does not have a lot of tension with her ex-husband.”

He invested in my largest program.
He said “I am looking so forward to doing this with your help. I know it’s going to be fun?”

Yes, it will. I have some great matches for him.

My third appointment is a lady, mid 50’s, divorced, highly educated, and her long term goal is marriage.
She was a client from 2007 to 2012 but she was traveling all over the world with her job. She is back in Colorado Springs to stay and will not be traveling anymore except for fun and pleasure. She definitely wants to continue to travel internationally and would love to do it with someone special.

She said “I feel so free to do what I want, and I am in a financial position to relax and only do what I want to do. I will still do some consulting, but it will be at my discretion, and on my terms.”

She has a strong desire to give back by volunteering, and getting involved with humanitarian pursuits.

She said “I have been traveling so much I really want to reconnect with the community and develop a network of friends. I would love to meet a man who has family and a network of friends.”

She is in a very different place than she was when I previously worked with her and I am excited that she has decided to become a client again.

Summer is just around the corner and love is in the air. I can feel the energy from the people who come in to meet with me. It is a great time to share with someone special all that Colorado has to offer outdoors during the summer and, of course, I think it’s always a great time to fall in love. You should call for your no obligation interview and see who might be waiting for you at Perfectly Matched!

To be continued…………………….