My first appointment today is a man, early 50’s, divorced, educated, self employed, one child in college, and his long term goal is marriage. He has been divorced for almost ten years and he is ready to find the right person and enjoy the rest of his life with someone special. He is financially secure, semi retired and all his priorities are in order. He said “Donna, I am in the best place I have ever been to be able to enjoy all that I have worked for so hard. I want to have FUN, new adventures, travel, explore, and be with someone I am crazy in love with and she is crazy in love with me.” He works out five days a week and loves going to the gym. He said “I know a lot of people who go to the gym and dread it, but I go and love it. I love how it makes me feel and I love the way it makes me look.” He enjoys boating, travel, playing pool, concerts, football, skiing, dining out, good movies and someone who is up on current affairs and current events. He said “Intellectual compatibility is more important to me than her level of education. I really enjoy a lady who is smart and quick witted. I would treat a lady like a princess and all I would ask in return is that she doesn’t ride my ass.” I said “Is that what you have had in previous relationships, someone who rides your ass?” He said “All but one. I am easy to get along with and I want a lady who is easy to get along with.” He said “I am serious, I am ready to meet the right lady.” I said “I totally believe you, and that is exactly what I am going to help you do.” I had him matched ten minutes after he walked out my door. I said “Was that quick enough?”
My second appointment is a man, early 30’s, ABS, highly educated, a great career, his long term goal is marriage and children. He said “I have seen your ads for years and I can’t believe I am finally sitting here talking to you.” He has also been on my website and read some of my daily dairies. He said “One on the things that jumped out at me was when a lady said to you that you served as a “filter” for helping her find the right person.” He meets ladies on his own, through friends, occasionally in the bar scene, but he is not meeting the quality of ladies that he reads about on my daily dairies. He said “My mother said I am not meeting ladies who are good enough for me.” I said “There are plenty of mothers who say that to their sons but your mother is probably right, because you have a lot to offer to a relationship.” He is good looking, tall, financially stable and successful, active, fit, funny, smart, kind, compassionate, a bit traditional, fun, loves and coaches kids, enjoys motorcycles, theaters, plays, musicals, hiking, running, working out, skiing, and he absolutely wants to get married and definitely have kids. He appreciates a lady who has her own life and interests, believes in personal growth and development, is fit, active, athletic and has a pretty smile and pretty eyes. I said “You are not looking for anymore than you have to offer in return.” He responded positively to every lady I spoke to him about; a pediatrician, a pharmacist, two teachers, a fitness trainer, and a nurse. I said “You would probably never meet these ladies on your own.” He said “That is why I am here.” Again, I love getting them when they are so young. I am confident I will help him find a lady his mother will agree is good enough for him and, of course, he is good enough for her, it has to be mutual.
To be continued…………..